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In Real Life Social Connect

Real People.
Real Connections.

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->Complete and return it, then we'll be in touch!!

Join us on this journey..

Henry Smith

Join us on this journey..

Henry Smith

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Matchmaking takes the hard work out of finding an aligned partner! This process takes the effort away from you needing to find someone who suits your lifestyle and relationship goals, saving you many dates and unnecessary repetitive questions in the early stages. 

Get matched: Enter your details above to receive your free Matchmaking Profile.

IRLSC offers a better way for singles seeking genuine relationships. Let us simplify dating and help you find the real connection you deserve.

Finding it tough to meet someone in Darwin? Tired of endless swiping and fake profiles? Wishing you could connect with people who share your values and goals in Darwin's unique scene? Feeling lost navigating dating without support?

​Upcoming Events

🌟 Calling single men aged 44+ & 27-43 for another great Speed Dating Event this Saturday, 6th September! 

Ladies have already booked, and some clever men are securing their tickets now - so don’t miss out! ONE WEEK TO GO!!

- We’ve done the hard work for you! 
All you have to do is book, show up and have fun.. 
Get out of your comfort zone, and off the apps.

Are you single and ready to meet others seeking real connection? Join us for a fun, relaxed evening of socialising with lighthearted ice-breakers designed to spark genuine conversations.

⏰ 44+ session: 4-7 PM – MEN: 6/20 sold, WOMEN: 11/20 sold
⏰ 27-43 session: 6:30-9:30 PM – MEN: 11/20 sold, WOMEN: 8/20 sold

Enjoy drink specials from 4-7 PM — $7 wines and schooners, plus delicious cocktails. Tickets are limited and just $25!

📍 Flicks I Darwin - 74 Mitchell St, Darwin City

🎟️ Secure your ticket NOW:
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Grab your spot to meet genuine singles in real life. Share with your Single friends!! - tickets may sell out.

On the website, you will also find other useful links, as well as your downloadable speed dating guide and post speed dating tips!!

Sign up for YOUR FREE MATCHMAKING PROFILE - taking the hard work out of dating. 

In Real Life Social Connect is Darwin's trusted dating connect company! 

Be authentic. Be yourself. Be ready to connect with like-minded singles.

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Matchmaking Process

01

Profile Creation - FREE questionnaire outlining your personality & relationship goals 

03

We organise your date - small charge to organise your date

05

Success! You found connection

02

You got a match!

04

Pool date feedback

In Real Life Social Connect Matchmaking

Matchmaking Starter

Pay-As-You-Go Matchmaking

Real Connections

  • Free Discovery Call: 15-min chat to see if we're a good fit. - BOOK BELOW!!

  • Personalised Profile: Expert-guided setup (photos & optional video).

  • Pay Per Match: You choose who you meet.

  • Date Concierge: We handle the details, including Darwin Waterfront perks.

  • Post-Date Check-in: Friendly follow-up after your date.

  • Bonus: Free healthy relationships e-guide & 10% off singles events.​

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No contracts. No pressure. Local, genuine matchmaking for Darwin singles (30-55).

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​Book your Discovery call below to find out more!!

Territory Connection Package

Ideal for busy professionals, commitment-ready singles & those who want guided support along the way​​​! (Package works our cheaper than the pre-paid option)

  • Free Discovery Call: 15-min chat to discuss goals. - BOOK BELOW!!

  • Personalised Profile: In-depth creation (lifestyle, values, etc.) with optional video.

  • 3 Date Coordination: Full organisation of first dates.

  • Post-Date Check-Ins: Video calls for reflection and support.

  • Exclusive Venue Perks: Discounts at Darwin Waterfront.

  • Healthy Relationships Guide: E-guide for building connections.

  • 10% Off Singles Events: Savings on IRLSC events.

  • Optional Add-ons: Coaching, photoshoot, style guidance, match guarantee.

  • Guided, Genuine Matchmaking: No apps or guesswork.

  • For Territory Singles: Focused on local connections.

  • Relaxed & Results-Driven: At your own pace.

  • Ideal for: Busy professionals and commitment-ready individuals seeking support.

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LAUNCH SPECIAL - 30% off! ​Book your Discovery call below to find out more!!

The Silver Lining Package

​Recommended Choice, & Best value for your dating success!!​

  • Free Discovery Call: Discuss goals and readiness. - BOOK BELOW!!

  • Bespoke Profile & Coaching: Expertly crafted profile with optional video and coaching.

  • Style Guidance: Personalised advice on wardrobe and grooming.

  • 6-Week Confidence & Communication Coaching: Master attraction, rapport, nerves, and chemistry.

  • 3 Date Setups: Full organisation of your date - matching the tone you want!

  • Pre & Post-Date Support Calls: Practical advice and feedback.

  • Exclusive Venue Discounts: Perks at Darwin Waterfront.

  • Healthy Relationships Guide: E-guide for building connections.

  • 20% Off Singles Events: Savings on IRLSC events.

  • Optional Add-ons: Photoshoot, extra coaching, app support, match guarantee.

  • Real Support, Style, Connections: Tailored for Territory singles.

  • Focus on Growth: Support for confidence, communication, and dating strategy.

  • Recommended Choice & Best Value: For enhanced dating success.

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LAUNCH SPECIAL - 30% off! ​Book your Discovery call below to find out more!!

Go for Gold Package

Your Fully Supported Premium Value Love Journey 

 

  • Free Discovery Session: 15-min chat to discuss goals and vision.

  • Bespoke Profile & Intro Video: Professionally crafted with you.

  • VIP Matching: Priority access to top-tier, highly compatible matches.

  • 6  Date concierge: Fully arranged and supported.

  • Extensive Coaching & Support:

  • 6 pre-date prep calls for confidence.

  • 6 post-date feedback sessions for refinement.

  • 4-week confidence or communication coaching.

  • Style & Presentation Guidance: Personalised tips for wardrobe and appearance.

  • Premium Venue Perks: Exclusive discounts and reservations at top Darwin spots.

  • Healthy Relationships Guide: E-guide for lasting connections.

  • No Success Fee: No extra costs upon finding love.

  • Guarantee: Free continued service if no match in 10 months (Darwin-based).

  • 50% Off Singles Events: Significant savings on IRLSC events.

  • Optional Add-Ons: Professional photoshoot, app profile support.

  • Premium Value Love Journey: Fully supported for ultimate dating success.

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About Us

In Real Life Social Connect (IRLSC) is Darwin’s home for authentic matchmaking, confidence, communication and dating coaching & support, and community events.

 

We’re here for people who value genuine connection, healthy relationships, and a supportive social network.

 

Our team is dedicated to helping you find meaningful relationships-without the endless swiping, fake profiles, or awkward small talk.

JOIN THE SOCIAL CONNECTION COMMUNITY

Connecting for Real: Your Journey Starts Here

In Real Life Social Connect (IRLSC) offers a community focused on authentic human connection, personal growth, and emotional well-being, aiming to help individuals build genuine relationships. Recognising the limitations and frustrations of traditional dating apps and unsuitable social settings, IRLSC provides an alternative for those seeking meaningful interactions. Instead of impersonal swiping and inauthentic profiles that waste time and money, IRLSC invites individuals to join a supportive community that values authenticity, compassion, and mutual support, ultimately helping people like you, find the fulfilling connections you deserve.

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