Add a photo or video, then choose whether to share it with event attendees only or in Introductions.
Darwin singles events
Meet people in real life.
Real conversations. Real chemistry. Real connections.
Dating apps aren't the only way to meet someone. Join other Darwin singles at fun, relaxed, hosted events designed to make meeting people feel natural again. Come solo – lots of people do!
Why IRL
Relaxed events
Enjoy yourself while meeting new people.
Real introductions
Get to know personalities beyond a profile.
Real connection
Meet face to face and see what happens.
Real events. Real people.
Meet Casey
Hi, I’m Casey Bruton, the founder of IRL Social Connect. I started IRL because I believe the best connections still happen face to face. Darwin is full of great people, so I built a place where you can meet in a relaxed, safe room, with a host who makes it easy.
More about CaseyFour steps to get started
How it works
Join free and complete your profile
Create an account, confirm your email and add your details. Choose Dating, Friends or Both. A complete profile is needed to book an event.
Explore events and introductions
Browse event details and approved video introductions. Videos are optional; choose whether your intro is shared with event attendees or people in Introductions.
Check the event details and book
Singles age ranges apply on the event date; adults outside a listed range can ask the host for an exception. Social event ages are suggestions. Some Singles events balance places by gender.
Meet, then keep in touch if it’s mutual
After a ticketed event, checked-in guests can privately choose who they would like to see again. If it’s mutual, you can connect and message for free. Choices close 72 hours after the event.
Your night: before, during, after
Meet your friendly host, check in with the event QR code, and find discreet in-app help if you need it.
Make private ticks. Mutual ticks create a connection with free messaging. Your choices stay open for 72 hours.
Here for friends too? Choose Dating, Friends or Both.
A little more about IRL
Get to know how it works
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0107 How it works
Video introductions
Say hello before you meet. Short, private video introductions let members share who they are beyond a one-line bio. Approved videos are only visible to signed-in members.
Join freeFree course
Be Video Ready
A free, practical course to help you feel comfortable and natural on camera before you record your introduction.
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Bring IRLSC to your venue
Got a venue, a business or an idea for a singles night? We bring a friendly crowd of Darwin singles to your space and run the whole event. Let's create something fun together.