Bring good people together.
The best events aren't just a venue and a guest list. They're spaces where people can relax, feel welcome and make a real connection.
Make the room feel right.
We're laying the groundwork for event hosts to share their gatherings with a community looking for something more considered.
Three things that make a great event
Tell the real story
Give guests the details they need: the setting, the age range, the price and what the evening will actually feel like.
Set the tone
We believe good hosting makes space for everyone. Clear expectations, respectful interactions and a welcoming atmosphere come first.
Grow with us
Set up payouts with Stripe, build draft events and publish once you are ready.
Simple, fair pricing
IRLSC's fee is 10% of the ticket price or $4, whichever is greater. It's taken automatically, and the rest is paid to you through Stripe.
No sign-up cost. No monthly fee.
What you need
- An ABN (sole trader is fine)
- Photo ID and a bank account in the same name
- A public, licensed venue
- About 15 minutes for setup
Ready to list?
Six short steps, saved as you go.
What is free, and what does membership add?
Free to join. Membership and event tickets are optional extras. Membership lets you send unlimited connection requests and open Date Ready Lessons 2–5. Receiving and accepting connection requests, and messaging accepted connections, stay free. A paid event ticket includes 30 days of complimentary membership. It does not automatically start a paid subscription.
What is IRLSC?
In Real Life Social Connect is an Australian service for singles who want genuine introductions, thoughtful in-person events and practical learning. Members can browse video introductions and manage their connections here.
Can I buy event tickets here?
Yes. Sign in with a completed profile and buy one ticket per event. Every ticket includes a free 30-day complimentary membership with no card needed, ending unless you subscribe.
Do I need to be a member to browse events?
No. Published event information is public and free to browse. Sign in to watch video introductions. Sending unlimited connection requests and accessing the full Date Ready course library require a paid membership; receiving and accepting requests, and messaging accepted connections, remain free.
Where are events held?
Event locations depend on what hosts publish. Each event page shows the city, suburb and venue information available to us. Check the events page for the current list.
Are the Date Ready lessons available?
The full Date Ready course is included with paid membership. Learn more about what membership includes on the membership page.
How do you approach safety?
We encourage public first meetings, clear boundaries and respectful behaviour. Read our safety guidance and community guidelines for practical steps and shared expectations.
Can I host an event?
Yes. Start host setup, connect payouts with Stripe, then build and publish events.