Course 1
Video Ready
Look and sound like yourself on camera, in 30 seconds or less.
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Short, practical courses you can take at your own pace. Video Ready, Speed Dating Ready and Three Great Dates are free with a free signed-in account. Date Ready Lesson 1 is free; the remaining lessons are included with membership.
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Course 2
Speed Dating Ready
Walk in confident, enjoy every conversation, and know what to do next.
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Course 3
Three Great Dates
You've matched. Here's how to make your first, second and third dates great.
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Course 4
Date Ready
Confidence for dating in real life, whatever your story.
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Course 5
Relationship Ready
Reflect on what matters to you, how you communicate and what it means to build something good together.
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Four Minutes at a Time
Your pocket guide to speed dating: how the night works, making every four minutes count, and handling the awkward bits.
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What really happens on the night, what to say when your mind goes blank, and how to turn four good minutes into a great first date.
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